Life Lessons Podcast-If You Love them, Let Them Develop


Life Lessons Podcast-If You Love them, Let Them Develop


This Eternal Life Student Podcast is with Kimberly Picado and guest speaker Chasity Bailey discuss her journey writing her new book.

This book offers a fresh perspective on, what is clinically known as, the erratic and emotional personality disorders. Anyone who has come into contact with a severely emotionally traumatized individual will find this book to be extremely helpful. Likewise, this book provides a voice to those who have underwent traditional mental health therapy because of severe childhood trauma. This book combines self-analysis, anecdotal evidence, and published research to provide a new perspective concerning the life-long impacts of childhood trauma.

If You Love them, Let Them Develop provides an understanding of the relationship dynamics that are common with emotionally traumatized partners while simultaneously promoting a deeper understanding of yourself, by use of:

  • A description of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Antisocial Personality Disorder, and Histrionic Personality Disorder as understood by clinicians and researchers.
  • Explanations of the confusing and often terrifying actions displayed by severely traumatized people.
  • A chance to examine your own family dynamics to better understand why you attract certain people.
  • Suggestions on how to navigate a relationship with someone who meets the diagnostic criteria for an erratic personality disorder.

The defining premise of this book is that no one is fundamentally broken. Traumatized people, such as those described in this book, simply have usual, human reactions to very unusual situations. The authors of this book hope you find peace and happiness in your relationship.