Forgiving is the only option! Periodt the only other thing in life that is just as important than love if not more is forgiving! Without a forgiving heart there's no way one can love! Nobody likes pain but pain test your forgiving. You don't attach yourself to your pain you just visit it to gain the lessons to be learned and use them to remind yourself where not to go back to! It's like the concept touch a hot stove you get burned that's the pain but you will remember not to ever to touch that hot stove again hopefully because some of us it may take a couple of hot stove touches to learn (hopefully not tho). Forgiveness starts with the letter "F" for a reason and that simple reason is it frees us from bondage of feeling powerless because that's exactly what you are when you don't forgive is POWERLESS! You have given your power to someone else over your well being!