Identity as a Man: 18 Principles of Manhood


Identity as a Man: 18 Principles of Manhood


John Bolden—author, life coach, and passionate advocate for at-risk youth—has dedicated his life to guiding young men toward purpose, responsibility, and resilience. With a background shaped by early athletic experiences and years of mentoring in juvenile detention centers, John brings both personal insight and professional commitment to this vital work.

He believes that only a man can truly raise another man. The presence—or absence—of a father plays a pivotal role in a young man's development. Yet even under challenging circumstances, choice and environment remain powerful tools. John teaches that while you can't always control where you start, you can choose who you become, and the environment you cultivate matters.

This episode explores 18 core principles of manhood, offering a roadmap to help young men embrace their identity, navigate life's pressures, and break free from harmful patterns. John challenges the stereotype that all young men are “mad,” reframing such emotions as unresolved trauma and emphasizing the urgent need to counteract negativity with truth, accountability, and positive influence.

“What you permit, you promote.” Change begins by surrounding yourself with examples—strong, intentional men who mentor, equip, and encourage growth. When young men are empowered to make wise choices, build healthy environments, and reject negativity, they can become the men they were created to be.

Join us for this thought-provoking conversation on manhood, mindset, and creating a better future.

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