“I used to be cool.”
That's how Army veteran Caitlin Duffy describes the struggle of leaving the turret of a Humvee in Iraq for life after the uniform. Once a 50 cal gunner, Caitlin's story is one of sharp contrasts from combat missions and PCS nightmares to becoming the “VA Loan Nerd” who helps veterans fight through myths and misinformation to achieve homeownership.
But her story goes deeper than loans. Caitlin opens up about the identity shift every veteran feels, the chaos of leadership in the civilian world, and the humor and grit it takes to rebuild a life from Humvees to homes.
In this episode of Vegas Veteran Voices, Caitlin talks about:
Life as a 50 cal gunner in Iraq and the realities of deployment.
The “I used to be cool” problem so many veterans face after service.
Why civilian leadership feels like “bowling night with no playbook.”
The infamous PCS move where movers shipped her trash can… still full of garbage.
The VA loan lies holding veterans back from building wealth.
This is the story of a soldier, a survivor, and a voice for veterans chasing stability after service. Caitlin Duffy went from Humvees to homes and she's still serving in a new way today.